Nurture or Nature? The subtle difference between soft skills and character skills

There is a profound difference between soft skills and character skills. Understanding the significance of nurturing both sets of skills for personal and professional growth, is paramount to our success in the workplace. 

Pocket Rocket Group is passionate about this subject, weaving values and character skills into both its academy and marketing workshops across the health, fitness and wellness industry for over six years.

While the terms "soft skills" and "character skills" are often used interchangeably, it is essential to recognize the fundamental difference between the two;

Soft skills encompass a range of interpersonal abilities and attributes that facilitate effective communication, teamwork, and adaptability. These competencies include communication skills, emotional intelligence, problem-solving abilities, and leadership qualities. They are vital for establishing rapport, collaborating with others, and achieving professional excellence.

On the other hand, character skills delve deeper into our very nature, reflecting core values, virtues, and qualities that shape our behaviour and actions. These attributes, such as integrity, empathy, resilience, and accountability, are at the heart of one's character. Character skills guide our decision-making, ethical conduct, and interactions with others - playing a pivotal role in establishing trust, fostering meaningful relationships, and leaving a lasting impact on those around us.

While soft skills are vital for navigating the professional landscape, character skills provide the foundation upon which effective soft skills are built. 

Without character skills, soft skills lack authenticity and sustainability. Nurturing both sets of skills allows individuals to exhibit the highest level of competence while fostering an environment of trust, respect, and collaboration.

By cultivating character skills alongside the more widely spoken about soft skills, individuals can differentiate themselves as authentic, compassionate, and accountable professionals.

In a recent poll conducted by Pocket Rocket Group across social media, the number one characteristic that people valued the most was INTEGRITY - the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles. This insight, compared to the other options given; courage, confidence and compassion, stood for a massive 83% vs 6% each, respectively. 

Broken down further, Integrity presents itself as the following values; reliable, trustworthy, honest and respectful - to cultivate these values through your business is to ensure that stakeholders are aligned as much as possible.  

Nick Mennell, Director at Pocket Rocket Group says “Whether in the workplace or personal life, the development of character skills empowers us as individuals to embrace challenges, overcome adversity, and maintain our personal integrity in all situations. Let’s be honest, how often do you consciously think about your personal or business values and assess the character skills required to take appropriate action?” 

In a recent Diary of a CEO podcast with best selling author and Organisational Psychologist Adam Grant, it is suggested that the key to a motivated, driven and productive workforce lies in aligning 3 out of 5 core values - this allows for slight differences in opinion and creates a positive environment for healthy debate and decision making. 

Adam Smithers, Talent Partner at Follow The Oak recruitment specialists says “Aligning personal values with those of a business is essential for creating a cohesive, motivated, and effective work environment. Personal values shape our character, influence how we make decisions, our approach to work, and how we interact with others. When our values align with those of the company, it not only boosts our job fulfilment but also helps create a more productive, purpose fuelled workplace. Candidates are increasingly prioritising companies that align with their values, so it’s crucial in today’s world that a business understands its core identity.”

To summarise, the distinction between soft skills and character skills is crucial for personal and professional growth. While soft skills enable effective communication and collaboration, character skills establish the foundation for authenticity, integrity, and ethical behaviour. By nurturing both sets of skills, individuals can lay a solid groundwork for success, happiness, and meaningful relationships in all aspects of life.

Published via WellNation Magazine

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